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GROW WITH LIBERTAS & EXP REALTY

By Tim & Julie Harris · June 4, 2026

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Everybody wants to blame the market. Rates. Inventory. Buyer and seller psychology. Here's the truth nobody wants to hear — if you walked out of your last listing appointment without a signed agreement, the market isn't the reason. Your listing presentation is.

You probably lost the appointment in the first 10 minutes, before you ever opened the listing presentation. Today, the autopsy on how that happens and the system that prevents it.

Why you should aim for 10 out of 10

Most agents go into listing appointments hoping for the best. Their unspoken target is "if I can take 6 out of 10, I'm doing great." That's the problem. When your goal is six, you'll hit three and rationalize the rest. Aim above the target, the way an archer aims above the bullseye knowing gravity will pull the arrow into the center.

Your target is 100%. Provided you've actually run the system — pre-qualification, pre-listing pack, the right sequence — there is no reason you should be losing listings. The listing appointment isn't showtime. The listing appointment is landing the plane. If you haven't won the listing by the time you arrive, you're probably not going to win it.

The seven-step listing process

Every great listing agent runs the same sequence. Most agents skip steps three and four and wonder why they're losing.

  1. Step one — proactive lead generation. You're not waiting. You're calling FSBOs, expireds, sphere, new build reps, probate. Real conversations with motivated sellers.

  2. Step two — pre-qualification. Use the seller pre-qualification script before you ever agree to an appointment. Motivation. Time frame. What they think the house is worth. What they owe. Whether they're competing you against other agents. Whether they have a house to buy. This is where the listing is actually won or lost — and most agents skip it entirely.

  3. Step three — set the appointment. And specifically, set it to be the last one if they're interviewing multiple agents.

  4. Step four — send the pre-listing pack. This is the silent salesperson that does 95% of the selling before you walk in the door.

  5. Step five — the listing appointment itself. 15-20 minutes if you've done the work upfront.

  6. Step six — execute the listing. Marketing plan, communication plan, weekly seller calls.

  7. Step seven — get the listing sold and convert the seller into your next referral source.

Most agents focus all their energy on step five and ignore one through four. That's backwards. Step five works on autopilot when one through four are done correctly.

The CMA script that exposes seller pricing

Here's the question most agents are afraid to ask but absolutely must. During pre-qualification:

"Mr. Seller, I'm going to be spending serious time on your CMA — a real estate agent's version of an appraisal — and I'm going to get into the details. Help me with one thing first. Which homes do you think are most similar to yours? Maybe ones you've been to during open houses or Christmas parties. Which ones come to mind?"

Then shut up and listen.

The seller will name a comp. "123 Elm sold for $750,000." You ask: "How was that one similar to yours?" And then: "What are the two others that come to mind?"

Notice the language — not "any others?" (which gets a no) but "the two others that come to mind" (which forces them to find two more). They'll give you two more comps. By the end of three minutes, you know exactly what they think their house is worth, because every seller has already done their own CMA — AI takes about 90 seconds to generate one. Don't fool yourself that they haven't looked.

Once they've laid out their three comps and given you a price range, you say: "Sounds like you're thinking your house is worth somewhere in the mid-7s." They say yes. Now you know the target. Now you can build the rest of the appointment around landing on a price that's defensible without arguing with them.

Bonus diagnostic — the more comps they can name, the more serious they are about selling. Sellers with zero comps in mind are usually social FSBOs in disguise.

What goes in the pre-listing pack

Three pieces of content that do almost all the heavy lifting before you arrive:

A completed CMA. Use their comps. Add in the ones they missed. Show your work. Sent 24-48 hours before the appointment so they have time to digest it without you in the room.

A completed net sheet. Three outcomes — high, medium, low — so the seller can see what each price point actually nets them at closing. Use a net sheet format where the listing agent commission is broken into three buckets (marketing, negotiation, transaction management) instead of a single line item. Don't create an objection where one doesn't need to exist.

The complete listing paperwork, fully filled out with sign-here stickies, minus the price. Yes, old-school. Yes, it works. Especially with more affluent sellers who appreciate the professionalism. What this kills is the "we want to review the paperwork" delay.

Plus a seller questionnaire — 20 questions designed to be the standard the seller uses to interview every agent they're considering. Average days on market. List-to-sell ratio. How would you negotiate this scenario. Ethical Real Estate Professional designation status. The questions are formatted so the agent has to write their answer, the MLS average is shown for comparison, and the seller is left with a clear scorecard of who knew their stuff and who didn't.

Most of your competitors won't know the answer to question 4. They'll start improvising. The seller will stop asking questions because it became clear who the professional was.

Your unfair advantage in 2026

The reason this works is structural. Most sellers in this market are stressed. The house isn't selling itself anymore. They're more selective than they were in the hot years. They're looking for a reason not to hire someone, not a reason to. Your pre-listing pack gives them the framework — the right questions, the right comparisons, the right expectations — and your competitors disqualify themselves on their own answers.

This is also why sellers gravitate toward the cheapest agent or the one promising the highest price when there's no other differentiation in the room. Without a real framework for comparison, every agent looks the same. Once you give them the framework, the entire conversation shifts from price and commission to who can actually deliver.

The "we want to think about it" objection

Here's the script for when it comes up at the table.

"Of course, I respect that. I think about big decisions too. Just so I'm clear — what specifically do you need to think through? Help me understand what's still open in your mind."

Then shut up and let them name it. Whatever they say, write it down on a yellow legal pad with a red Sharpie. Usually it's one or two specific concerns — net to them, marketing plan, term of contract.

"Once I completely answer your questions about these two things and you're 100% positive we're the right listing agents for you, would we be moving forward this evening?"

Yes/maybe/no. Then handle the two issues one by one. Cross them off the list with the Sharpie as you address each. By the time both are crossed off, the only thing left is signing the paperwork.

The Sharpie close

Once you've reviewed the pre-listing pack content together, you pull out a yellow legal pad and a red Sharpie.

"Mr. Seller, at this point — you've read the pre-listing pack, you've seen the CMA, you've reviewed the net sheet. Sometimes people have one or two lingering questions before we move forward and start the process of getting your home sold. Do you have a couple of questions, or are you ready to get started now?"

That's it. That's the close. Most sellers will say let's get started. Some will name one or two final concerns. Either way, you're now in the path to signed paperwork.

The biggest mental shift here — don't ask "do you want to think about it?" Don't ask "do you want to sleep on it?" Don't ask "when would you like me to follow up?" Ask if they're ready to move forward tonight. The answer is almost always yes.

What you'll see when you actually run this

Don't be surprised when sellers cancel the other listing appointments on your competitors after reading your pre-listing pack. Don't be surprised when you walk in and they've already signed the listing agreement and just need to discuss price. Don't be surprised when the listing appointment takes 15 minutes instead of two hours.

You'll start to see the questionnaire pages — your seller actually used it on the previous agents. You'll see the answers got progressively shakier through questions five and six. You'll see the seller stopped asking questions before they got to the bottom of the page because the other agents were disqualifying themselves in real time.

Your competitors aren't taking that level of preparation as seriously as you. That's your edge. Not pricing. Not commission. Preparation.

The takeaway

If you're losing listing appointments, the problem isn't the market and it isn't the seller. It's that you're treating the appointment itself as the moment of truth instead of the formality at the end of a process that started days earlier. Pre-qualify before you go. Send the pre-listing pack. Show up to land the plane, not to perform.

Win 10 out of 10. That's the standard.

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Of the last five listing appointments you went on — how many did you fully pre-qualify and send a pre-listing pack to before you arrived?

— Tim & Julie Harris

Founders of Tim & Julie Harris Real Estate Coaching | Publishers of Harris Real Estate Daily | Hosts of PowerHouseTalk | eXp Realty Sponsors at Libertas

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